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    loving—lily:

    I really, really wish that I didn’t feel the need to defend myself and my decisions to any of you. But as much as I’ve been distancing myself from this blog and trying to act like I don’t care about it or like what you guys say doesn’t affect me, it does. It really, truly does. Having you guys…

    (via the-miles-between)

    — 3 months ago with 91 notes
    ipinguiniregneranno:

Vintage’s Life - Fotos da Linha do tempo | via Facebook on We Heart Ithttp://weheartit.com/entry/91142581/via/heartsoppressed

    ipinguiniregneranno:

    Vintage’s Life - Fotos da Linha do tempo | via Facebook on We Heart It
    http://weheartit.com/entry/91142581/via/heartsoppressed

    — 4 months ago with 27 notes
    "Now that I’m sitting here in front of millions of people, I’d like to address something extremely important to me. I was talking to my friend before the show and he reminded me of a great Martin Luther King quote. He said, ‘Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.’ And due to the fact that we are in Florida tonight accepting this award, I want to acknowledge Trayvon Martin and the hundreds and hundreds of kids each year that are dying due to racial profiling and the violence that follows it. This is really happening. These are our friends, our neighbors, our peers, and our fans, and it’s time that we look out for the youth and fight against racism and the laws that protect it."
    Ben Haggerty’s (Macklemore) acceptance speech at the AMA’s (via everydayisabattleiface)

    (Source: iamsemiautomatic)

    — 4 months ago with 44 notes
    aseaofquotes:

Cecelia Ahern, If You Could See Me Now

    aseaofquotes:

    Cecelia Ahern, If You Could See Me Now

    (via lover-of-rouge)

    — 5 months ago with 9880 notes

    I hate this shit. This has devalued everything that is valuable.This is why I am where I am and it is so frustrating to me knowing I can never actually get out of this place I’m stuck in. Unless I want to immerse myself in this type of life or if I want to take myself away from it all completely. I’m so pissed that this is why I’m working and this is what I have to have if I want to live. It makes no sense to me and yet I can see how it’s imbedded in every social structure that’s apart of my life that is what i hate the most. I hear it’s different in other places, I belong there. This isn’t even the end. I don’t get anything and I won’t ever get any answers.

    — 5 months ago
    "

    Everyone wants to be loved and needed, particularly by the person who just broke up with us. I understand. What could be better than hearing from the man who just told you he didn’t want you in his life anymore … his sad, wistful, “I miss you so much” voice on the other end of the phone? It’s validating. It’s exciting. It’s irresistible. But resist you must.

    My friends all say I should stop talking to him, but I think he misses me, and I like that. I miss him. I feel if I stay in touch with him, it will remind him of how great I am, and eventually he will realize that we should be together again.

    A man who wants to make a relationship work will move mountains to keep the woman he loves. If he’s not calling you to tell you he loves you and wants you back, it should only be because he’s showing up at your new residence to do it in person … if he’s not doing any of that, he may love you, he may miss you, but ultimately he’s just not that into you. Stop taking his calls and let him know what it’s like to live without you.

    Don’t be flattered that he misses you. He should miss you. You’re deeply missable. However, he’s still the same person who just broke up with you. Remember, the only reason he can miss you is because he’s choosing, every day, not to be with you.

    Deciding to get back together with someone is a complicated and difficult decision. Just remember that the person you are getting back together with is the same person who, not long before, looked you in your beautiful face, took full stock of you and all your qualities, and told you that he was no longer in need of your company.

    Cut him off. Let him miss you.

    He doesn’t need to be reminded that you’re great.

    There’s a guy out there who’s going to be really happy that you didn’t get back together with your crappy ex-boyfriend.

    The reason it’s so painful when someone disappears is you have to face the fact that the person you loved had probably left you a long time before he grabbed his coat and scrammed. The part part is realizing that he was lying to you, in some way, before the moment of vanishing.

    Don’t give him the chance to reject you again.

    No matter how powerful and real your feelings may be for someone, if that person cannot fully and honestly return them and therefore actively love you back, these feelings mean nothing.

    Being lonely … being alone … for many people … sucks. I get it, I get it, I get it. But still I have to say that yes, my belief is that being with somebody who makes you feel crappy or doesn’t honor the person you are is worse.

    Life is hard enough as it is without choosing someone difficult to share it with.

    You deserve to be with someone who is nice to you all the time.

    "
    He’s Just Not That Into You (via hellolittlespoon)
    — 5 months ago with 1174 notes
    "..a man who wants to make a relationship work will move mountains to keep the woman he loves…if he’s not calling you to tell you he loves you and wants you back..it should only be because he’s showing up at your new residence to do it in person … if he’s not doing any of that, he may love you..he may miss you..but ultimately he’s just not that into you…stop taking his calls and let him know what it’s like to live without you."
    — 5 months ago with 50 notes
    ""If he’s not calling you, it’s because you are not on his mind…if he creates expectations for you..and then doesn’t follow through on little things, he will do same for big things…be aware of this and realize that he’s okay with disappointing you…don’t be with someone who doesn’t do what they say they’re going to do…if he’s choosing not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight.. then he doesn’t respect your feelings and needs… “Busy” is another word for “asshole.” “Asshole” is another word for the guy you’re dating…you deserve a fucking phone call." **"
    — 5 months ago with 45 notes
    "“I don’t want to be “sort of dating” someone. I don’t want to be “kinda hanging out” with someone. I don’t want to spend a lot of energy suppressing my feelings so I appear uninvolved. I want to be involved. I want to be sleeping with someone I know I’ll see again because they’ve already demonstrated to me that they’re trustworthy and honorable — and into me.”
    — Greg Behrendt"
    — 5 months ago
    "

    “1. “A man who wants to make a relationship work will move mountains to keep the woman he loves”
    2. “Don’t spend your time on and give your heart to any guy who makes you wonder about anything related to his feelings for you”

    3. “But what I can do is paint you a picture of what you’ll never see when you’re with a guy who’s really into you: You’ll never see you staring maniacally at your phone, willing it to ring. You’ll never see you ruining an evening with friends because you’re calling for your messages every fifteen seconds. You’ll never see you hating yourself for calling him when you know you shouldn’t have. What you will see is you being treated so well that no phone antics will be necessary. You’ll be too busy being adored.”

    4. “We (men) would rather lose an arm out a city bus window than tell you simply, “You’re not the
    one.” We are quite sure you will kill us or yourself or both—or even worse, cry and yell at us.”

    5. “Remember: Men are never too busy to get what they want.”

    6. “The only reason he can miss you is because he’s choosing, every day, not to be with you.”

    7. “Don’t you want the guy who’ll forget about all the other things in his life before he forgets about you?”

    8. “If a guy truly likes you, but for personal reasons he needs to take things slow, he will let you know that immediately. He won’t keep you guessing, because he’ll want to make sure you don’t get frustrated and go away.”

    9. “If you can find him, then he can find you. If he wants to find you, he will.”

    10. “The word “busy” is the relationship Weapon of Mass Destruction. It seems like a good excuse, but in fact, in every silo you uncover, all you’re going to find is a man who didn’t care enough to call. Remember: Men are never too busy to get what they want.”

    11. “An excuse is a polite rejection.”

    12. “People are inspired to do remarkable things to find and be with the one they love.”

    13. “And most importantly, it’s good for us all to remember that we don’t need to beg to get someone to ask us out. “”

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    — 5 months ago with 1 note